I am sitting at my desk just a few minutes after our first official “Praying Pops” gathering at WCCS. Modeled after the Moms In Prayer ministry, a few dads gathered together early this morning to pray for our school and community. There were four of us in attendance. As we sat and shared our praises and requests, I couldn’t help but think the world must really think we are foolish – in the biblical sense of the word. There were four men gathered together with the express purpose of admitting before God that we didn’t have it all together, that we needed Him to guide and sustain us as husbands, fathers, church-men, and even just as men. And, we not only gathered for that reason, but we did so in a way to share our short-comings and our weaknesses publically – with other men that we don’t necessarily know very well. How foolish that must seem to a world that celebrates strength and wealth and independence. We exemplified none of these traits this morning. We were weak (although asking for His strength to sustain us, heal the sick, and go before us as we sought to serve Him), poor (begging God to bless – praying specifically that every single senior who graduates this May would be walking with the Lord as he/she receives the diploma), and completely dependent (acknowledging that apart from Him, we really can do nothing)!
After sharing of prayer requests and before we prayed, I read a passage of Scripture from James 1, verses 5-8. These verses have been a prayer of mine for many years – and have become even more prominent in my prayer life since coming to Westminster Catawba Christian School. This passage begins with James, the brother of Jesus, offering the first half of a conditional (if… then…) statement. The “if” is, “If any of you lacks wisdom….” I get all six words into that sentence and can do nothing but raise my hand exclaiming, “That’s me! I lack wisdom. What should I do??? Please help!” The second half of the condition, the “then” portion of the sentence, seems so simple. James simply states, “let him ask God…” Oh yeah. That makes sense. But, what does that really look like to “ask God?” James anticipates this need for further clarity and shares a helpful, yet humbling, description of the process of “asking God.”
“If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him. But let him ask in faith, with no doubting, for the one who doubts is like a wave of the sea that is driven and tossed by the wind. For that person must not suppose that he will receive anything from the Lord; he is a double-minded man, unstable in all his ways.” (James 1:5-8)
There is so much here. Allow me to just share a few quick thoughts. God is the source of wisdom, so He is the One who can provide it. He gives it when asked by those who believe that He will answer. Doubt, particularly doubting that a prayer for wisdom will be answered, is a very real temptation that presumes upon God. It must be fought! If the doubter should not suppose that He will receive anything from the Lord, then the one who prays in faith SHOULD suppose! In other words, we are called to do what the Praying Pops did this morning – to go to Him as weak, poor, and needy children who believe that He can and will grant us the wisdom that we pray for. For those dads (or granddads, uncles, etc.) who would like to join this needy group next week, we will meet each Wednesday in the Upper School Chapel from 6:45 am until 7:15 am.